I've tried.. I really have but now its time to ask for a refund

I still can’t find where you addressed to me but I have found this:

In all three situations there were no threat of imminent extinction. People allied with invaders hoping that they will benefit from that. Romans were famous about sweet promises and assimilation of allied tribes. Here in the game analog for that would be that Anu started to attack other fractions because they were convinced that Yoggothian Entity will be their god and would spare them if they honor his agenda.